Every now and then I get something, even when it’s least expected. From time to time, whether it’s something small or a lot bigger…I always try to help out my fellow Brothers and Sisters in uniform. If you think that you’re covered for a deployment…well, maybe things have changed since I’ve been in. But even on a warship, where the urgency for combat is often significantly less, I have found that being ready for the worst wasn’t usually satisfied by relying on the command apparatus. Maybe one day I’ll actually sit down and try to figure out how much I had invested on myself…but I can tell you it isn’t cheap by any stretch of the imagination.
With that experience always vivid in my mind, anytime I see someone in a more important situation in need I try to see if I can use what I’ve developed to work for me to help them out. This was the case of an Army sniper in need some time ago. I had known him through a friend in NSW and was told of his situation, which to me looked fairly ugly. It looked as if he almost didn’t have much for essentials. I could be wrong, though my friend is too busy for me to make small talk of the situation. He had asked several of his friends if they could help with a list that the young sniper needed and he also added up from his experience. With that, I went down the list and tried to find some stuff that I knew was fairly essential. Suffice to say, I pitched in on a few things on the list.
Well, I ended up getting a thank you card from the father. I just put it on this blog, because it was worth mentioning…these small things. And to an extent it made me feel better about myself…
Especially after Monday night. Monday night Chip had come down and we had the TV flipped on. After Ben’s arm made a national appearance on Prison Break (he was lucky enough to be an extra while they filmed here in Dallas), I figured the next episode would continue the same scene and perhaps I’d get a glimpse of Ben’s shoe, lol. Unfortunately, I have not been following the Prison Break show and just wanted to watch it to see if I could see Ben. Eventually I’ll get the DVDs and start from the beginning.
Well, I see that Prison Break’s time slot is taken over by that Moment of Truth TV show. In a nutshell it’s that retarded lie detector show that I’ve seen trailers and commercials for and think it’s an ugly concept feeding off the sensationalist want of our current society. After flipping through some channels and being lazy, figured that since the TV was on we’d see what the ruckus was all about.
Apparently, what was in view was a special edition episode. I don’t know any different, this is my only (and last, I swear) view of the show. I had mainly a young married couple, somewhere around my age or younger. The person in the “hot seat” was the wife. Sitting nearby was her husband, her parents, her younger sister…and someone else who I don’t know about, he never really said anything and they never talked to him.
The questions that I first heard were fairly benign initially. Asking the lady if she thought her parents were proud of her or if she’d be her sister’s surrogate mother if the sister couldn’t have children. Then shortly thereafter, with the money reward higher, the questions suddenly started getting ugly.
As I understand, she has a chance between questions to throw in the towel in the game. Any money she had won at that time, she could walk away with. However, the moment she answered a question and lied…which I’m even wondering about the conditions of determining the truth…then the game ends and she loses any money that was awarded.
The questions were rough and as if it wasn’t horrid enough, she continued to choose to be asked the questions. They started off a little light, having to answer if she blamed her husband for the loss of her close friends (answer is true) and during girl’s night out with her friends if she’d remove her wedding ring to make her appear single (answer is true).
At this point, at least to me, the foundation of their marriage took a good rattling and she continued to insist on asking more questions. I also noted coming out of a commercial break, that the person asking the questions had a little PSA before the show continued and said that if he had a choice this episode wouldn’t air and to watch the episode with caution. Strange, as it turns out to be a special edition episode, tanking over Prison Break. However, watching him during the game he was either genuinely flustered by how the game was unfolding or he is one of the best actors I’ve ever seen.
The next set of questions before she could get to the next amount of money came as a surprise to her. Before that happened, another question was posed…was she in love with one of her ex-boyfriends on her wedding day (answer is true). At this time the doors opened and a guy walked through. The wife was speechless so the game host introduced him as one of her ex-boyfriends. To which the ex asked her the question that if he wanted to get back together with her if she would dump her husband. The sister hit a button that I guess allows the wife to avoid the question, but instead answer another question. That other question was also asked by the ex, which was something to the effect of if she believed that he was more ideal of being her husband vs her current husband (answer is true).
At this point, when the sister hit the button to get her sister out of it, I was disgusted to hear a large number of booing from the audience behind her. Likewise, the eruption of applause after watching a marriage practically shredded with just a few strands holding things together, the wife elects to continue.
So the next question is posed, if she has had sexual relationships with other men while married (answer is true). The next question was did she think she was a good person…and I almost fell out of my seat when she said in the end she believed she was a good person. Thankfully the Fembot Lie Detector agreed with me and registered her answer as false, causing the tormenting to cease and make her walk out of the building with no money and, even worse, an ugly future.
It was the most disgusting thing I’ve ever seen on TV…for those that want to give it a try, I don’t know why I’m mentioning…but a lot of network websites are doing playbacks of their shows…I’m sure it’s there. But really, why bother? While being disgusted, I felt a tinge of pain that by just merely watching it I had helped in the very obvious unraveling of two lives, in front of ones family and all over the country.
My friends and coworkers who I’ve personally talked to of this understood where I was coming from. Only two people from the nethers of the online world asked me if it was better off that they live a “fake” married life than have it out in the open to “save” what’s left of their lives before it’s too late.
I’m sorry, those two are seriously missing the picture. This is disturbing to me in a few facets. First off, you don’t need a stupid lie detector reality show to fix up anything in your life. I know of many retarded and out of nowhere arranged marriages of the past and quasi semi arranged marriages now that are working out, difficulties and all. If you need your life to be salvaged by a show like this…what am I supposed to say? If you come on to a show like this that will leave you metaphorically shredded by the power of honesty, mainly in relationships…what does this say of you as a person? In the way you expect and value relationships? Take it even beyond just relationships even, like my first question…overall as a person?
The audiences almost foaming at the mouth had me incredibly disappointed as well. I don’t really think I need to amplify with what’s already been said. I myself had a slightly hard time sleeping after watching that. However, to amplify my first concern…the last question she flopped, she answered that after all of that she still thought she was a good person. Which is really sad, I come across so many people and there are many… I’m not saying I’m the golden knight, that could be further from the truth. How I have chosen to live my way of life has it where I have to walk and thrive in the Dark of the world. So here I return to say I see people, and most are smart enough to know they come off as idiots if they talk about being saints. However, they end up giving themselves far more credit than they are even close to deserving. This lady’s answer was borderline ignorant of almost the entire episode before her and what she had laid out. It’s a shame.
Anyhow, no more lie detector shows for me. Usually the value of something I witness is determined by what I learned out of it, out of myself and the lesson in life that can be imparted. Moment of Truth had nothing of value for me, I do not relish in the sensationalism or watching people rip each other apart in that way.
However, like I mentioned in the beginning…a simple card sent to a grateful father helped me bring my tired mind back into the more relevant focus on hand and I feel I can move past the gnawing I’ve had since Monday.
Further with that, during my back and forths inside the office (it was a very busy day today), I heard repeatedly a techno song of some sort while streaming the Glenn Beck Program. The song is catchy, but it is a bizarre song. It’s from Russia, a song amounting to pretty much a girl having a boyfriend like Vladimir Putin. The group that made the song were virtual unknowns and this song has skyrocketed to the number one song in Russia. Glenn seems to every now and then find and share strange songs that get stuck in my head. One that is noteable was the Crazy Frog song about three years ago. Well, the Putin song definitely got stuck in my head…it was strange, especially the music video. Glenn of course, has his thoughts on it…those curious about the song and happen to be a Friend of mine on MySpace, I’ve thrown it on my profile for your hearing pleasure.
Well, enough for now!
UPDATE 28 FEB 2008: This got posted on Thursday…yes. You read it and felt it was written on Wednesday…yes. I never stayed awake long enough to post it yesterday evening, lol.










